Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Don’t trust people who make False Promises

Today I wanted to talk about don't trust people who make false promises all the time and you have experience it time and again but still you inner heart says this one last chance let me trust him/her. A false promise is a statement or word that   most of the time knowingly or unknowingly we give a lot of promises without thinking and are not able to keep it. Repeatedly making and then breaking commitments and promises is a common trait among some people
is not in accordance with the truth or fact. Not being genuine, being fake, untruthful and the list can go on.This topic came as
Promises from partner to keep talking or will call you back.  Then... Phone calls does not come when you call it goes unanswered. Text messages are ignored.....hope is broken. Hearts are aching. Nothing hearts more than being disappointed by the single person you thought would never hurt you.
A husband repeatedly has affairs, but apologizes profusely when caught.
A teenager repeatedly promises to help out around the house but doesn't follow through
A parent commits to a weekly activity with their child but regularly has another 'more important' priority when the time comes
 A housewife promises to reduce  her spending habit but repeatedly runs up credit card bills.
 Even as small as --  lot of the time  I have come across many people who on fraction of second would say –“please give me few seconds and I will get back to you… that few seconds turn into days and he/she does not get back.
 Rita is waiting for her friend at bus stop..on being asked friend replied  I am coming in 10 minutes while in reality it would take more than probably half an hour.
        Thus False promises is hope built entirely around fantasy a hope that has no knowable chance of coming to fruition. Remember- Some people are forgetful so trusting those people promises is not using common sense. Some people just talk as if things are simple, and that they will definitely help you, but when it comes to the real situation, they are the first ones to run away or make themselves unavailable. 
So ----When you know that a person makes promises without thinking and has not kept it many times its important not to depend on that person for important tasks. 
Don’t react emotionally when the person continuously breaks his/her promise and don’t blindly trust them.
If you feel really hurt share the problem with someone, for important task-keep a backup.
Its important to move away from person who makes false promises.  
 If you can talk to him/her make realize them not to make confident promises of things that they are not sure of—As they say you are what you do not what you say you will do.
Always remember that a person who has always excuses for not being with you or not keeping up to tasks promised to you all the time...its alright to move away ---it may be very painful but its important..
So remember when you really matter to someone that person will always make time for you, no excuses, no lies,and no false promises

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